Lobola 2011 – like/unlike?

Its summertime and suddenly I have a pile of wedding invitations and in chatting with the rather progressive and outspoken brides and future makotis they all have a wonderful list of the things they simply will and will not do once they are the Mrs most of them directed and I fear unsuspecting in-laws who are obviously overjoyed that their boy is finally settling down and finding a wonderful girl to take care of him, join their clan and bear them chubby little grandchildren, one of which must be a boy (but that’s a subject for another day’)